You’ve been invited to a party of a good friend of yours. You’re excited, and there are potentially a lot of different single women there. As you arrive at the party, you look across the room and there she is, the girl of your dreams. Your heart starts pounding and you notice a dryness in your throat.
You notice she’s wearing this great summer dress, and has long hair that just blows with the wind. All you can do is go ga ga over her. The energy and confidence that exudes from her is stronger that the sun’s rays down in Las Vegas.
You muster up your courage, you take your first steps towards her. You approach her and introduce yourself, you both are having a great time, but the trouble is that you both are stuck on talking about topics that are interesting but you’ve notice there’s no sexual chemistry building between the two of you. You’re in danger of screwing up, and you know you need to flirt, but what do you say?
The Million Dollar Question: What’s the Best Way to Flirt with Her?
The best way to flirt with the girl of your dreams is to look for the most attractive part of her personality and compliment that part of her. That part of her personality should radiate attraction to you so that when you do compliment her that she can feel the sincerity that comes through from it. Read on to find out how to do this more.
A confident man can compliment a woman’s beauty. Yes she has beautiful eyes. Yes she does have a gorgeous smile. And yes she has a radiant energy about her. But those are the types of characteristics that any man can tell about her when they first see her in the first 5 seconds.
But it takes an intelligent, thoughtful and charismatic man to compliment a woman on who she is, and her glowing personality. To turn on the sexual attraction between you two you need to be able to get her to feel that you truly understand and appreciate her personality. And this is why you want to be able to compliment on the values that she carries on in life. If you can find out what she values, and add some poetry to it, then you she will find that a turn on.
Mistakes that Most Men Make When Flirting:
What most men do is that they will find a personality trait of a woman attractive but they will never verbally express it to her at that moment.
This happens for several reasons.
1) They keep it inside of them because they are afraid that they are making a move too soon and don’t want to come on too strong to her.
2) They are afraid of being rejected right after he makes the compliment.
3) That flirting is not the right thing for a gentleman to do. After all nice guy don’t flirt right?
4) Some men are crazy enough to believe that she hasn’t earned the right to the compliment!
If you are going to sweep a woman off her feet, then you need to tell her how you adore that part of her regardless of her reaction. This is what a real man should do.
What to Say to The Girl of Your Dreams:
Let’s say you’ve found out a trait about her that you find is a turn on. This could be that she values her health, or that she has such a creative spirit, or that she’s such a caring person.
Then you need to tell her, “Do you know what I appreciate about you? It’s the fact that you make health such a priority in your that you treat your body like the temple of your soul.”
“Do you know what I appreciate about you? It’s the fact that you have such a creative and vibrant energy to you.”
“Do you know what I appreciate about you? It’s the fact that you have such a wonderful heart and caring personality.”
When you’ve become comfortable telling her what you appreciate about her. Then you can raise the temperature between you two by telling her that you find a particular personality trait of hers sexy, or that you find that such a turn on about her, or that is “hot” about her.
Take the Chance:
Next time you see the girl of your dreams, go up and talk to her. Find out something you genuinely find attractive about her, and tell her how much you appreciate that part of her personality.
What do you believe is the best way to flirt when you meet the girl of you dreams?
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